I was a victim of emotional/mental abuse for 6 years. It was so hard to get over. It took a long time and I have regrown to be so much stronger since. The person who abused me can no longer affect me. He no longer has that power. I wonder if this abuse would have started when I was a child if I would have been able to get over it. If one of my parents told me when I was a child that I was the cause for the problems they had made for themselves... if I would ever get over it. What if my dad hurt me and told me to get over it... it was nothing. What if the person I loved was so mean to me I couldnt help but cry and reach out for help... all I got was my dad making me feel guilty for telling on him. Or making fun of me and tell me that I should be the opposite gender. What would that do to a child?
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11 years ago
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It's definitely a tough thing to handle throughout all of life. The extent of damage is nearly permanent...
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I agree, it is really permanent. My sister and I put my step father in prison for malesting us and my mother told us we deserved what we got. That is something that has changed me and so has changed the way I 'feel' in general. I'm so glad you got away from that person and have grown from it!
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